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Of interest
Beatriz and Jose Davila try to reach Hispanics through “Ministerio Torre Fuerte,” the church they started
in Stafford County three years ago, and the Bible classes he teaches in Spanish at the Rappahannock Regional Jail.
Sometimes, the bigger crowd is the one behind bars.
The Davilas, who moved here from Venezuela eight years ago, want Hispanics to recognize that the United States has different laws than their homelands.
“People come here very ignorant,” she said. “They need to remember three things: to love others, to respect others and to follow the rules.”
Focus
Sylvia Torres has a makeshift altar in her office.
Actually, it’s a three-tiered plant stand, but it’s not lined with African violets or Swedish ivy. Votive candles, an image of the Virgin Mary and statues of children and angels fill the shelves.
Women who come into Torres’ office immediately recognize the display. Many Hispanics dedicate a corner of their homes to altars, where they pray and light jar candles that burn for days.
“Women sit down, and they start talking, and then they start crying,” she said.
Torres is the Hispanic services coordinator for the Rappahannock Council on Domestic Violence. She was hired almost a year ago to serve the growing number of Spanish-speaking women.
Torres took almost 80 reports of domestic abuse in her first six months on the job.
“I’m starting to feel scared,” said the Puerto Rican native. “I’m happy on one side that I can give the services and that they have found somebody who can help them. On the other side, it’s so sad.”
Many women are like one client, who has six children and is totally dependent on her husband’s income.
When he spends the rent money on liquor, they start fighting. He declares that he can do as he pleases because “he is the man,” and the abuse begins.
The husband and wife are in the country illegally, Torres said. The woman doesn’t have any family in the area, can’t read or write English and doesn’t have a job.
Few Hispanic women will leave their husbands in such situations, Torres said. Equality between the sexes isn’t as prevalent in some Spanish-speaking countries as in the United States, she added.
Torres helps women who have been abandoned go through the legal process. For those who stay with their husbands, she offers support groups and counseling.
“I can count very few happy endings,” she said.
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